A recent survey of busy young professionals (ages 22-35) conducted
by Microsoft indicates that more people are trading in calligraphy and scented
stationery for e-mail and even text messages. In fact, 79 percent of busy young
professionals surveyed have sent or received an e-mail love letter within the
past two years, with more than 77 percent reporting that they love receiving
e-mail love letters, since e-mail is their primary means of communication.
Sending a love letter online doesn't mean that it's less sincere
or romantic than a handwritten note. In fact, there are major advantages to
sending or receiving a love letter via e-mail, including the ability to refer
back to it easily, and from anywhere. Eighty-six percent of people surveyed who
have received an e-mail love letter say they saved them in their inbox. With
very large storage limits available through free e-mail providers like Windows
Live Hotmail, it's especially simple to access an old love letter from any
computer, a Web-equipped mobile phone, or print them out as a permanent
keepsake, as one survey respondent did. "I saved all of the [e-mail] love
notes that my boyfriend-at-the-time wrote while we were in a long-distance
relationship - now he's my husband. I printed them out and have them in a
binder that I look at on occasion."
A love letter doesn't necessarily have to be a lengthy soliloquy professing
your eternal love - it can be a simple "I love you" - in fact, more
than 27 percent of people surveyed report that they've been told "I love
you" for the first time over e-mail or instant messenger programs like
Windows Live Messenger - or a short note recalling a fond memory you share.
Another survey respondent recalled a particularly sentimental love note she
received: "The day after my husband asked me to marry him, he sent me a
beautiful e-mail saying how great he felt asking me, seeing the ring on my
finger on the way in to work the next morning, watching how excited I was to
show it off to everyone and how excited he was to spend the rest of his life
with me."
Thanks to the convenience of e-mail, you don't have to be Casanova
to send a memorable love letter that will make someone's day. With the recent
trend of love letters going digital, these five simple tips will have you well
on your way to sending a memorable e-mail love note that your significant other
will cherish for years to come.
1. Set the mood: Find a quiet place and a dedicated time to write
your love letter. Be sure to minimize distractions so you can focus your
thoughts on your loved one and put your emotions into words.
2. Be your most romantic self: A well-written love letter should
make your beloved fall more in love with you, so think personal. Focus on the
other person and express your emotions, dreams and vulnerability. Never be
negative, but try to avoid being too funny. A love letter shares deep and often
difficult-to-express feelings and should always sound like it comes from you.
3. Be specific and sincere: Highlight unique quirks or
characteristics you love about the person, recall special memories you've
shared, or write about the reasons why you fell in love with him or her in the
first place. Don't be too casual and don't be afraid to let your true feelings
show.
4. Spice up the presentation: Try adding color, special photos of
the two of you or graphics. Using e-mail features like Hotmail Quick Add, you
can easily search for and add images without leaving your inbox. If your
relationship is long distance, or if you're looking to add some more creativity
to your letter, you can make and edit a short movie of yourself, a recent trip,
or a favorite outdoor spot using free movie-making programs like Windows Live
Movie Maker, available at download.live.com.
5. Double-check details before hitting "send": Don't let
writing errors distract from the meaning of your words. Read over your letter
to make sure it conveys what you really mean and check for spelling and grammar
errors. Most importantly, before sending an e-mail love letter, double-check
that the "to" line is correct - 1 out of 10 people surveyed have sent
love letters to the wrong person by mistake!
Courtesy of ARAcontent